What is the context?
In the BSB, Paul describes a man considering his responsibility toward his betrothed. If marriage is appropriate, they should marry; he is not sinning. If the man is settled in his decision, under no pressure and able to remain unmarried, Paul says he does well.
The comparison between doing well and doing better continues the chapter’s counsel about circumstances, gifts and freedom to serve. Paul does not turn his preference into a declaration that marriage is disobedience. This particular decision must be made honestly rather than as a way of appearing more spiritual.
How is this passage commonly understood?
Readers differ over the relationship Paul describes. The BSB presents an engaged couple, while Wesley’s notes on verses 36–38 and Calvin’s comment on verse 36 understand a father considering his unmarried daughter’s marriage. The USCCB note acknowledges both possibilities. Both approaches preserve the central reassurance that choosing marriage is not a sin, while Paul continues to commend the advantages of remaining unmarried.
What is our position?
We don't have a position on this passage yet. When our study reaches a conclusion the text supports, it will appear here.